Before I get all deep and philosophical I want to make sure we’re all on the same mental soundtrack page. To whit I would like to fit you with the appropriate earwig for this post. Go ahead, give it a listen, I’ll wait til you get back.
Early 80s pop makes the world a better place.
Now, where was I?
Cyndi Lauper . . .
deep and philosophical . . .
changing everyth . .
Ah! That’s it!
One of my absolute favorite pages on Facebook is Queen of Your Own Life. It isn’t your typical fist pumping, man bashing, Gurrrl Powerrr, type page. It is by turns gentle, loving, and supportive; while offering occasional thumps between the eyes that often leave a nearly visible, lasting mark all delivered via “Memes” that are easily shared and quite memorable.
They also have a website and a book, but since I’m not getting a commission from them you can find all that stuff yourself.
Aaaaaand I digress . . .
I saw it early on, liked it (both personally and in that Facebook kinda way), thought about ‘Sharing’ (in that Facebook kinda way), thought “Nah”, then got another nudge and clicked “Share” and just tossed it out there.
A couple hours later a young woman I have known forever but have never met face-to-face (isn’t the internet a wonderful place?) commented on the post and we had a discussion about the post itself that culminated in me commenting “Isn’t it amazing how running changes your life?”
And then, I started thinking.
You see, like me, she was largely sedentary throughout her youth and early 20s and about a year or so ago she decided to change that and began running.
Unlike me she didn’t wait until she was nearly fifty years old to do it! Wise beyond her years is that one.
Like me she was terrified of every possible terror a newly minted runner can face: “looking foolish”, falling, failing, quitting/giving up (yet again).
But she did it anyway.
She laced up and ran. And I’m pretty certain that first run, like mine, both sucked and was awesome all in the same panted breaths.
She’s had good runs, bad runs, first starting and finish lines; struggled with the age old question “Which shoe is really right for me?!”, and slogged through all the unsolicited advice about socks, Glide, and every-other-running-thing.
And, like me, it has changed her life in one seminal way: Fear is, if not ‘no longer a factor’, at least much less a factor every single day of her life.
Because that’s what running does.
It takes you past that “I could never run THAT far!” distance to the “I just ran THIS far!” further distance.
It takes you from “Oh really, I just want to run races of THIS distance!” to “I can totally train for THAT race of that-longer-distance!”
Once you’ve done one thing you “have never/could never do” that pretty much takes every other “have never/could never” right off the table!
Once you have chosen to do one thing, to take one action, that gives you greater control over improving your body and your life experience, you realize that every other thing that falls under that general heading is totally within your grasp to do.
No matter what it is.
Relationships. Jobs/Careers. The State of Your Surroundings. You name it – it’s just another race of a different distance.
So, my dear Ms. Lauper, I’m certain you will understand when I respectfully disagree with the premise of your groundbreaking earwig hit and posit that while money may buy a really great pair of running shoes and some uber cute running skirts, it is the running that changes everything. Not the money.
Money just makes it easier to look cute while the changes take place!